All in the Family

Guest post
by Wendy Siefken

Our journey started back in 2009 when my son was still in high school. He was having trouble with school work in the form of being dyslexic and issues with cross modalities. Basically on top of all this, he hated school work. We tried for a long time to find a way to find something he was passionate about to help encourage him to do his homework and participate in school. We had an IEP or an Individual Education Plan in place that would help with the learning issues.

The one thing we found that Charlie did like to do was read books. He first discovered Christopher Paolini’s book Eragon and even though it was slow going the first time he read it, he liked it. He wanted to know more about the author and discovered that he was also a kid in school who had written a book and published it. Charlie was always coming up with story ideas for his journals at school. He would write the stories instead of the topic given.

The principal, at his wits end, finally gave him a challenge. The challenge was to write and publish a book. It had to include subjects such as language, math, history and geography. If we finished the book and it had these subjects he would get a pass/fail grade. He wouldn’t get an A or a B; he would just either pass the class or fail.

He accepted this challenge with a fire I had never seen in him before. Finally all his story ideas would become a book. We worked every day during the summer that year to get this book written. Every day he would say, “Mom, let’s work on the story!” We looked up information about caves, we had to calculate the distance made during the trip. We looked up current historical events that we could also put into the book. We did research on the different types of characters in our book. I think Charlie’s desire to learn was greater than his previous years of schooling.

Since Charlie was under the age of 18 I decided to spear head the looking into how exactly we go about getting published. I didn’t want him getting caught up by the first shiny thing dangled in front of him. We had very little funds so basically anything like vanity publishing was out. I did my research on how to get published. Back then it was still pretty much the tried and true, query an agent or submit our manuscript to a publishing company. We struck out with everyone. Then we heard about Amanda Hocking and how she published independently in our local paper! I read that article with everything we had. Charlie and I discussed the options open to us with this new information. The one thing that he really wanted was to publish a book that he could hold in his hands. I checked out each and every one of the sites on the list that Amanda mentioned in the article. I discovered that CreateSpace was a POD and Charlie could have his paperback!

During this entire time we worked together on everything. We learned who worked best in what roles. I always checked with Charlie and let him know if he ever wanted to stop writing I was all right with that. We learned that Charlie was best at being the creative one since he was always having story ideas come to him. He started keeping a note pad by his bed and took with him everywhere he went. All of this helped to improve his writing skills as well as learning issues. I took the lead on internet marketing and contacts since he was still under age. We worked together on story ideas as well as marketing ideas. There were times when we would disagree on an idea only to find out we both had the same idea just were coming at it from different viewpoints.

We decided we wanted to make all of our mistakes with the first book. The book was edited by us, friends, extended family and finally a small publishing house with a professional editor. We each enjoy our roles. Everything I write goes through Charlie first. Now that we have a greater handle on how this works we have gotten other stories lined up to be published as well.

We have learned a lot since our days of starting out and still have a lot to learn. We love this passion that seems to have chosen us. We are on this path together and will see it to the very end. Where ever that may be.

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19 thoughts on “All in the Family”

  1. What a wonderfully encouraging story! I applaud the teacher who gave Charlie the challenge and you for being so supportive of him. We need more inspirations like this in all our lives.

  2. Thanks for sharing that amazing story with us, and I wish both you and Charlie all the best in this best of all challenges. I think you have both found a niche in the writing world that will make you happy. Congratulations to you both. 🙂

  3. Too often struggling kids are marginalized by the system. How fortunate that Charlie had an understanding principal willing to think outside the box and give him a chance to use his strengths to succeed.

  4. Wow, great story; thanks so much for sharing! Sounds like this was the perfect way to light a fire in your son’s mind. Congratulations on all your work. This can be an inspiration to many.

    1. Thank you Melissa for your kind words and yes, he really has grown and blossomed since then. I am very happy to see him so happy and living a full life and going on to college as well!

  5. Fabulous post, Wendy! Thank you. Wouldn’t it be GREAT if our children were actually taught this way–that it was the norm in education? Sounds to me like Charlie learned so much more than he would have being taught the traditional way, and will be able to apply that learning to real-world situations. It’s not difficult to make learning fun. What IS difficult is changing education’s out-dated system from within.

    1. You are so very right DV! Charlie had a really tough time up until high school and we met the new principal. He really worked very hard to help Charlie as well as the other teachers who encouraged him and even sent home the article telling us how to self publish. We were really blessed by all the people who helped us and Charlie become who he is today.

    1. Thank you Martin for al your support and leading us here to Indies Unlimited. Our story is what started us on this adventure and we just keep going on it. Thank you for everything!

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